Everything does not require a response.
Mature women (and men) in Christ know when to speak and when to hush.
 
We can't go around "clapping back," eagerly and verbally defending our name and character - especially out of character, snapping on folk, and then calling it God. 
 
Leaders:
 
There are times we will have to rebuke. Sometimes privately, sometimes openly. Even then, it must be done in LOVE and by the leading and release of GOD.
 
Be led by God at ALL times.
 
Our posture is prayer.
Our first response is prayer.
Our clapback is PRAYER!!!